Monday, May 4, 2009

Compassion

I am overwhelmed! God is so gracious, it just blows my mind. Let me give you the long version of the story.

Back in March, Owen’s Mom’s Day Out program sent little banks home with each of the children to collect money for a feeding program for kids around the world. Owen loved putting his change and even some dollar bills into his “feed the children bank” as we called it.

On Easter Sunday, the boys had an Easter egg hunt at my mom and dad’s house. There were lots of pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters and even a few dollar bills in the eggs. When we got home, Owen was given the choice of putting his money in his piggy bank or his feed the children bank. He chose to feed the children. I don’t know how much he understands the concept of money and where it goes and who gets it, but I thought it was neat that he was excited about helping kids around the world.

This got me thinking . . . how can we continue teaching Owen about the issues of poverty and how it affects kids all over the world. I brought this matter to the Lord and pondered the thought for several days. I remembered sponsoring a child through World Vision while I was in college. I also remembered hearing about Compassion, a similar program with the motto “Releasing Children from Poverty in Jesus’ Name.” I checked out the Compassion website and continued praying. A few days later, I was reading a blog that I frequently check. One of the writers was preparing to leave for a Compassion sponsored trip to India.

In the meantime, I talked with Brandon about the possibility of sponsoring a child. He quickly agreed that it would be a great idea for our family to do this. I began searching for a special child that our family could sponsor. I wanted to find a little boy around Owen’s age. I read many profiles and did many searches. I began focusing my search on children with a mental or physical impairment. My original intent was to sponsor a child with a speech impairment. I’m a speech-language pathologist, so I thought this would be a good fit. As I searched, I found a little guy from Indonesia (see the map below) named Tinus. Although he didn’t have a speech impairment, he does receive regular medical care for a vision impairment. What drew me to Tinus? In his profile, it was listed that he liked to tell stories, ride his bike and play hide and seek. Sounds just like Owen, especially the storytelling part! However, I didn’t take the step to sponsor Tinus just yet.

Later that night, I stood in front of the bathroom mirror. Tinus’ little six-year-old face kept popping into my head. I knew that this is what God was calling me to do. He had led me to this place and guided my steps . . . now it was up to me to act. This is the part where I often get stuck. I over think things or put things off or just wimp out. The next day, I finally made the choice to obey. I went to the website, found the picture of Tinus and just did it! I was so excited!

Fast forward to today. This is the overwhelming part! The boys and I went out to the mailbox. Our sponsorship packet was in the mail! We went inside and opened it immediately. It was fun to see the picture of Tinus and some information about his family and where he lived. After the boys left the kitchen, I began opening the rest of the mail. We received two separate checks with our tax returns. I didn’t think much of it. The last thing I opened was a large envelope from the Nielson Company. This is the group that compiles the television ratings. We have kept track of our television viewing habits for them in the past and they had called to ask if we would do it again.

So what is the big deal? In return for filling out the television diaries, the Nielson Company sends cash . . . this time it was $30. I was so excited!!!! This almost completely covered our first month of sponsorship! How cool that we received our sponsor packet and the first months payment on the very same day! I called Owen into the kitchen and shared the exciting news with him! He wanted to put the cash in an envelope and send it off right away. I gave a pretty poor explanation of credit card payments and banks and how all that works. Anyway, I was about to leave the table when I realized something. I pulled out a calculator and did a little figuring. One of our tax return checks plus the thirty dollars in cash was almost exactly the amount of money it cost to sponsor Tinus for one year! When I say exactly, I mean within $4!

God honors obedience. He doesn’t wait until we have it all together and are living a perfect life. He doesn’t wait until we have all our issues dealt with and under control. He doesn’t even mark us down for taking a little longer than we should have to do the right thing. God honors our obedience, period.

Luke 11:28 He replied, “Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it.”
Learn more about sponsoring a child.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Disney Photopass Pics

Here are a few more pictures from our Disney vacation. Disney offers a service called Photopass. Photographers are scattered throughout each of the parks. All of the photos taken are linked to a Photopass card. You may view your photos online and decide if you want to purchase some or all of the pictures. We were able to get lots of great family photos this way. If we had it to do all over again, we would have taken more pictures and gotten a little more creative with our poses. Brandon had a great idea one day. We attempted to have a picture with the just the boys. The boys were not very cooperative, but at least we made the effort. Here are a few of my favorite!

Friday, April 24, 2009

Early Family Update

Miles: This little guy is chatty! The other day my mom quoted him as saying, "I knock it down." The speech-language pathologist in me is thrilled! He is still pretty attached to mom, but is finally appreciating the funness of dad. Miles is in that independent stage. He wants to do everything by himself, but he can't quite pull off many of the tasks. He is becoming a picky eater and would stick to a not-so-healthy diet of dinner rolls, bananas, pickles and suckers if I let him. Miles has the funniest faces I have ever seen. And when I say funny, I mean sassy. It is so hard to keep a straight face when he scrunches up his whole face up and sticks out that lower lip. Relations with his big brother are coming along. He still does not appreciate all the "love" that Owen tries to lavish on him, but the boys have been caught playing together from time to time.

Owen: On a good day, Owen is the sweetest, kindest, most caring little boy. On a bad day . . . he is still pretty cute. Owen loves babies and is always cooing over any baby he comes across. Owen is great at sharing, especially at the dinner table. That kid is willing to share almost anything he is eating, even if it is his special treat. Now, toys are a different story. Don't mess with his train tracks or cars. He might be willing to share, but a little negotiation may be required. Speaking of Owen's train tracks . . . he is an amazing little engineer. He is always putting together different tracks. I love to see how each track is built so uniquely. I'm thinking that Owen's love language is quality time. He just wants you to be right there with him, watching and listening. I can't count how many times he directs my gaze with a gentle touch of his hand to my face each day.

Brandon: This man does it all! He works really hard at the church and then comes home to be superdad. Brandon pitches in around the house and makes sure I can get out with friends or do something fun. He cooks the best "Dadbelly" sandwiches around and the boys adore his eggs for breakfast. Daddy makes life fun by shuttling us all out to the Belvidere Oasis and Rock Cut State Park. He also makes really cool slide shows and videos of our family. The boys love wrestling and playing "I don't think so" with daddy. Brandon still makes me laugh whether its his silly McDonalds order or honking at the deer in the State Park. He keeps us all on our toes! Brandon will be off to the Ukraine this summer for a missions trip with the Senior High students. He has faithfully served at the church and has seen God do amazing things! He spoke at GROUP's national youth ministry conference this year and has even had a tech idea published in their magazine.

Me: First, I must admit, I have fallen off the exercising bandwagon. I need to get back on. I will. Planning and organizing events is still a hobby of mine. I loved planning our family vacation and already asked Brandon where we can go next. Even if it is another year or two, I can still start thinking and dreaming! Sometimes I wonder if I should have been a travel agent. With retreat being finished, I am moving into the area of connection within women's ministires. This is an area that needs to be developed so again, lots of dreaming. Another project I've started is editing a book. I'm not an official editor. A man from our church has written a devotional book for teens and has asked if I can look over the book. This is something totally new and different for me! I am looking forward to the summer. Hopefully, the boys and I can have some fun adventures. I see parks, pools and zoos in our future!

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Easter

Some time ago, I posted a poem I had written during a time where I was faced with the reality of death. A dear friend had lost a young daughter several months prior, my grandfather had just passed away, and in a few months I would lose a child to miscarriage. Strangely enough, the comfort and hope I received during that season of death was rooted in the death of another. On this Easter Eve, my thoughts turn to my comfort, my hope, my Jesus. Tomorrow I will celebrate the one who was raised from the dead to die no more. He is the author and perfecter of life.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

Monday, March 30, 2009

Our Disney Vacation

We did it! We survived and you might even say thrived at Disney World! Here are some highlights from our trip:

Thursday-Owen comes into my room and informs me that we can go to Disney without him. He will stay home with Grammy. Turns out he was a little concerned about the flight. After some very smooth mom-talk, Owen had a change of heart and decided this was going to be a great trip! We arrived at the Caribbean Beach Resort in time for dinner and some exploring.

Friday-We learned that our family loves Epcot! Who would have thunk it! The boys had a blast at The Seas with Nemo Pavillion. Turtle Talk with Crush was a big hit. Daddy enjoyed tasting all the international sodas at Club Cool. We had lunch at The Coral Reef and dinner at The Garden Grille. The boys got to meet Chip, Dale, Pluto and Mickey himself! We ended the night with a brisk walk around the World Showcase.

Saturday-We were off to The Magic Kingdom. The day started off a bit rocky when all three men decided the Dumbo ride looked a little too threatening. We changed plans and headed to Mickey's Philharmagic . . . not my best idea. I think it was the combination of the dark theater, creepy 3D glasses, and water shooting out of the seats that sent both boys into hysterics. From that point on, the boys were quite leery of entering any sort of theater building. We recovered with a boat ride at Small World and really pleased the little guys at Pooh's Playful Spot, a little play area. Just before lunch at Tony's Town Square, we headed over to the Harmony Barber Shop. Owen went first and did a great job sitting still for Mr. Rex. Next, Miles stepped up to the plate for his very first haircut! He was given his very own Mickey ears with "First Haircut" stitched in the back . . . too cute! After some down time at the resort we returned to the Magic Kingdom for a quick dinner and a ride on the Jungle Cruise and a train ride.

Sunday-The day began with a mad rush to Toy Story Mania at Hollywood Studios. Unfortunately, everyone at the park seemed to have the same idea. This ride must be amazing, but we will never know. The highlights from this day include seeing the PlayHouse Disney show, JoJo and Goliath and Leo and June at Play N Dine, Lightening McQueen and Mater (Owen was delighted), the Block Party Bash and finally finishing our day with dinner at the 50s Prime Time Cafe. Brandon got a stern talking to from our waitress . . . she was great!

Monday-A slightly rainy day--perfect for the Animal Kingdom! We began the day with Kilimanjaro Safaris. This was amazing! The animals were out and about and soooo close! The boys loved this ride! After a trek on one of the trails we boarded a train to Rafiki's Planet Watch. Owen and Miles loved the petting zoo. Those goats and sheep received some tender loving care from my boys that day! I believe today was the day that we stopped at DinoLand for some carnival games. Owen won "Alphabet Snake" (he came up with the name) and a little stuffed bat which he gave to Miles. Fun times!

Tuesday-Back to the Magic Kingdom! We hit the Indy Cars, Monster Floor Laugh Inc and Mickey's ToonTown. Again, the little play area was a favorite for Owen and Miles. We ate at Cosmic Rays and headed back to the resort for some down time (we did this almost every day). We returned to the park for dinner at the Crystal Palace. We met Pooh, Tigger, Piglet and Eeyore. After dinner, Daddy saved us a great spot for the SpectroMagic Parade while the boys and I took a train ride. The parade was awesome and probably one of my favorite things!

Wednesday-Our last day! We began the day at Epcot. Owen ended up enjoying "Living with the Land" boat ride after initially screaming and yelling "I think this is gonna freak me out!" He also had a chance to see Turtle Talk with Crush again. This time, Crush talked to Owen and Daddy! Very cool! We headed over to the World Showcase for a boat ride at Mexico and then off to lunch at Rose and Crown Pub. While waiting, Owen loved the hedge maze at United Kingdom. We had a special surprise at Rose and Crown. The boys were the first youngsters at the restuarant as we had reservations right at opening. They received crowns and special certificates in a little ceremony at the entrance to the pub. That evening we headed back to Animal Kingdom. We used some Fast Passes from the Conniff's to ride Kilimanjaro Safaris again. We ended the evening with The Lion King performance which was amazing! The monkeys were the best!

Thursday-We were picked up from our room at 6:30am! The Magical Express took us to the airport at 7:30am to catch our 12:30pm flight. After a long day, Grammy and Grampy picked us up at OHare airport and delivered us safely home. What a great week!

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

The Potty Process

I received a text from my sister-in-law the other day saying that my sweet little niece Maggie went on the potty for the first time. How exciting! Maggie is a few weeks younger than Miles so it is natural to compare a bit. Where is Miles in the potty process? Well, he loves to wipe . . . while fully clothed! It's really quite hilarious. That kid brings a smile to my face on a daily basis. Keep wiping Miles, at some point it will be a very useful skill :-)

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Early's Kingdom

Received a fun link to this website from one of my Jr High girls. Too funny! Thanks Bethany!